{"id":8863,"date":"2025-01-04T00:13:31","date_gmt":"2025-01-04T00:13:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.josemarquez.com\/etc\/?p=8863"},"modified":"2025-01-05T01:58:36","modified_gmt":"2025-01-05T01:58:36","slug":"enough-basta-we-stopped-knowing-when-to-say-when","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.josemarquez.com\/etc\/2025\/01\/04\/enough-basta-we-stopped-knowing-when-to-say-when\/","title":{"rendered":"We&#8217;ve stopped knowing when to say when."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Have you ever had sushi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A small piece of rice. A small piece of fish.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And it is perfect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To get something \u2013 even pain \u2013 in just the right amount, is the greatest joy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>The Dose Makes the Person<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/assets.buttondown.email\/images\/30b53380-d613-4e66-8d31-346e46b5cbec.jpg?w=960&amp;fit=max\" alt=\"diagram of portion as poison or present\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">for example<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It is the most incredible and unexpected present of the last few years that I am now, in almost every way, full. My cup is full. It overruns, even.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am satisfied and in love with what is around me. (Even as our material security is the most precarious it has been.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Enough. Genug. Basta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cEnough\u201d comes from the proto-Germanic&nbsp;<em>ganog<\/em>&nbsp;and I have enjoyed its raw German version&nbsp;since I learned it in high school:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-code\"><code>Genug.<\/code><\/pre>\n\n\n\n<p>It stops and starts. It\u2019s complete.&nbsp;<em>Genug.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Have you ever heard&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/click.pstmrk.it\/3s\/www.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3Dr6XElAPENe4%26utm_source%3DJoseMarquez%26utm_medium%3Demail%26utm_campaign%3Denough-genug-basta\/Y83j\/N3W6AQ\/AQ\/92492b60-c7ea-4314-8f58-09eb06924433\/3\/xv2NH2O9c-\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">this song<\/a>&nbsp;by Kraftwerk?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a classical melody and a crisp, refreshing drum track.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is also just enough. Perfect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/click.pstmrk.it\/3s\/www.gutenberg.org%2Ffiles%2F2814%2F2814-h%2F2814-h.htm%3Futm_source%3DJoseMarquez%26utm_medium%3Demail%26utm_campaign%3Denough-genug-basta%23chap15\/Y83j\/N3W6AQ\/AQ\/92492b60-c7ea-4314-8f58-09eb06924433\/4\/bQBUAgk7IK#chap15\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">short stories<\/a>&nbsp;that are just enough. Not more, not less.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/click.pstmrk.it\/3s\/en.wikipedia.org%2Fwiki%2FSerenity_Prayer%3Futm_source%3DJoseMarquez%26utm_medium%3Demail%26utm_campaign%3Denough-genug-basta%23Versions\/Y83j\/N3W6AQ\/AQ\/92492b60-c7ea-4314-8f58-09eb06924433\/5\/bkYYrRWUp0#Versions\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Prayers<\/a>, as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Spanish&nbsp;<strong><em>basta<\/em><\/strong>&nbsp;is a little bit different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It comes from the Greek \u03b2\u03b1\u03c3\u03c4\u03ac\u03b6\u03c9, to carry, bear up, carry off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In other words, what lifts us up, what sustains us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is what we&nbsp;<em>need.&nbsp;<\/em>Not what we want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>That is joy.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>Ruled by our wants.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, the personal is&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/click.pstmrk.it\/3s\/www.themarginalian.org%2F2014%2F01%2F16%2Fkurt-vonnegut-joe-heller-having-enough%2F%3Futm_source%3DJoseMarquez%26utm_medium%3Demail%26utm_campaign%3Denough-genug-basta\/Y83j\/N3W6AQ\/AQ\/92492b60-c7ea-4314-8f58-09eb06924433\/6\/_YvxQkXRhV\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">political<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p>True story, Word of Honor:<br>Joseph Heller, an important and funny writer<br>now dead,<br>and I were at a party given by a billionaire<br>on Shelter Island.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I said, \u201cJoe, how does it make you feel<br>to know that our host only yesterday<br>may have made more money<br>than your novel \u2018Catch-22\u2019<br>has earned in its entire history?\u201d<br>And Joe said, \u201cI\u2019ve got something he can never have.\u201d<br>And I said, \u201cWhat on earth could that be, Joe?\u201d<br>And Joe said, \u201cThe knowledge that I\u2019ve got enough.\u201d<br>Not bad! Rest in peace!<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/click.pstmrk.it\/3s\/www.instagram.com%2Fcicciolini%2Freel%2FDELyknwp9DU%2F%3Futm_source%3DJoseMarquez%26utm_medium%3Demail%26utm_campaign%3Denough-genug-basta\/Y83j\/N3W6AQ\/AQ\/92492b60-c7ea-4314-8f58-09eb06924433\/7\/VUcHBp_a6Q\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Our system is a symptom of our society<\/a>&nbsp;just as much as it&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/click.pstmrk.it\/3s\/en.wikipedia.org%2Fwiki%2FRatchet_effect%3Futm_source%3DJoseMarquez%26utm_medium%3Demail%26utm_campaign%3Denough-genug-basta\/Y83j\/N3W6AQ\/AQ\/92492b60-c7ea-4314-8f58-09eb06924433\/8\/2gzhqHce3A\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ratchets us<\/a>&nbsp;in the same horrible direction:&nbsp;<strong>bottomless appetitive, envy, resentment.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/click.pstmrk.it\/3s\/www.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DaPhrTOg1RUk%26utm_source%3DJoseMarquez%26utm_medium%3Demail%26utm_campaign%3Denough-genug-basta\/Y83j\/N3W6AQ\/AQ\/92492b60-c7ea-4314-8f58-09eb06924433\/9\/h8A8nxeUQy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/assets.buttondown.email\/images\/368d862a-8e52-4aea-8837-80146e8e8dee.jpg?w=960&amp;fit=max\" alt=\"screenshot from Contrapoints video on Envy\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Nailed it.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>On the way down to Tijuana a few weeks, we played the&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/click.pstmrk.it\/3s\/www.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DaPhrTOg1RUk%26utm_source%3DJoseMarquez%26utm_medium%3Demail%26utm_campaign%3Denough-genug-basta\/Y83j\/N3W6AQ\/AQ\/92492b60-c7ea-4314-8f58-09eb06924433\/9\/h8A8nxeUQy\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">excellent Contrapoints video on Envy<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And it made me realize that we\u2019ve spent way too much time on electoral politics (push) and not enough on social trends (pull).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s hoping we can find our way to being ruled by people who know the meaning of the word \u201cenough\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/paultassi\/2024\/11\/22\/elon-musk-apparently-just-became-the-no-1-diablo-4-player-in-the-world\/\">People who are not consuming \u2013\u00a0devouring, destroying \u2013 to fill a bottomless hole of insecurity.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2>A movie I want you to watch.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/click.pstmrk.it\/3s\/www.justwatch.com%2Fus%2Fmovie%2Fmonkey-man%3Futm_source%3DJoseMarquez%26utm_medium%3Demail%26utm_campaign%3Denough-genug-basta\/Y83j\/N3W6AQ\/AQ\/92492b60-c7ea-4314-8f58-09eb06924433\/12\/b_c5PlIBOD\" target=\"_blank\">The movie is called&nbsp;<em>Monkey Man<\/em>&nbsp;<\/a>and it is perfect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is a violent action thriller. It is also gentle and noble. A liberal fantasy. I can\u2019t recommend it enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Good luck to us all, especially to those who do not have what they need.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever had sushi? A small piece of rice. A small piece of fish. And it is perfect. To get something \u2013 even pain \u2013 in just the right amount, is the greatest joy. The Dose Makes the Person It is the most incredible and unexpected present of the last few years that I&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[9,13,15],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.josemarquez.com\/etc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8863"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.josemarquez.com\/etc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.josemarquez.com\/etc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.josemarquez.com\/etc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.josemarquez.com\/etc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8863"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.josemarquez.com\/etc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8863\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8866,"href":"https:\/\/www.josemarquez.com\/etc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8863\/revisions\/8866"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.josemarquez.com\/etc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8863"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.josemarquez.com\/etc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8863"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.josemarquez.com\/etc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8863"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}