Roger Ebert on the movie Enduring Love:
Jed is clearly mad. He exists at the intersection of religious hysteria and erotomania, and confuses God’s love with his own sudden love for Joe. But what can Joe do?
Wikipedia on erotomania: “Erotomania is a type of delusion in which the affected person believes that another person is in love with him or her.”
There are those who believe in a distant God. This God does not love humanity. But it’s nothing personal. This God is beyond love – or any other human feeling. This God exists in the patterns of snow flakes, the function of lava and of supernovas. This God lives in the depths of infinite space and in the orbits of subatomic particles. For many, this God is not a discrete force but a logical inevitability.
Conversely, there are religions that present God with a human face and human feelings. In some cases, this God is a personal and a loving figure. You don’t just believe in this God, as you might an idea – you feel his presence and his love.
That’s quite a remarkable achievement if you think about it. (Of all the feelings, isn’t love the most pleasurable?)
But according to our sciences (to which we owe medicine, economics and engineering, for example) a person is delusional when she or he feels a love that can’t be proven. As in erotomania: “a type of delusion in which the affected person believes that another person is in love with him or her.”
This is no rare condition. Erotomaniacs are a staple of our crime blotters. For example, what would you make of a character who testifies:
She does love me. Even though she hasn’t called me or returned my letters, I see the signs she leaves for me. What’s more I feel it. She doesn’t need to tell me. I can feel it.
Which puts the person who feels God’s love in a bit of a pickle.
Or it might if the U.S. had not gone down a path of religious pluralism in the 1700s. We allow all sorts of beliefs. Even those that resemble erotomania.